Our day

As I said before we are very lucky and this year we actually got married, after 10 years as a couple.

We`ve had a hard couple of years... We had our beautiful twin girls, which was a lot of hard work, and just wanted a normal pregnancy and birth, and a healthy child. Freja is a very happy child, most of the time, and we do fel lucky for that - she is content.

But there is a lot of hard work, all the time. We can tell her ”no” but she gets angry with us for not letting her do whatever she wants. And there is a lot of stuff surrounding her whole care, she is just a baby in a 4-year-olds body, and that is a lot to deal with.

There is so much love as well. This year she has learnt how to kiss and hug us and it’s the best thing ever. She shows very clearly what she likes and doesn’t like, but she doesn’t talk. She starten saying ”mamma” last summer but it didn’t last and it hasn’t returned, I wonder if it ever will. She does make a lot of sounds but nothing that sounds like words.

We have descovered now that we are so used to this life that we don’t even notice when Freja makes her high noices or hits us when she’s happy or excited. We understand we have a long and winding road ahead and I just hope we can keep this good family feeling. That we can all be happy and feel content, like we do now. Everyone just wants a healthy child so when that doesn’t happen you need to cope with everything as best you can.